Looking For Women
Are abusive men looking for women they can control?
Do they want to marry or just Date women they can control? Someone who will be subservient?
I know they can't love them, but if they can't love them, then why marry them?
Also, men with mommy issues- do they want their partner to fulfill the role of their mother?
yes abusive men do want women they can control and unfortunatly weak women who follow the cycle of domestic abuse meet these type of men and wind up with them We have a habit of being codependent and thinking that they need us and they will change.In their sick little way they do love us but we are just property to them.
I am now in a relationship that is not abusive and every day I thank God that I broke my pattern.
With my last husband as soon as we met, I knew we would get married eventually if I said yes and went out with him and it was a month later before we got married. He was very abusive and controlling. He broke my 80 year old Mom's ribs and cracked her ear drums and he tried to kill me on several occasions.
As for Mommy boys yes they want the wife to take the Mother side over them. But their woman will never be able to live up to his expectations and be as good in his eyes as his Mom.