Single Parents Dating
Single Parent Dating help?
im a single mom .
IS it possible to be adorn by a guy ?
i am 24 years old . I am so lonely . I want a guy I trust completely & is my best friend ! is this possible or Am I a hopless romantic!?
the guys I Have dated in the past were nothing but just sex partners & I was too dumb to tell the difference!
Well, you are not too dumb anymore! Welcome to the adult section of dating! There are some basic rules we single moms follow to protect ourselves and our children:
1. Until you know the guy you are dating is serious about you, and you are serious about him being a part of your life, DON"T introduce him to your children. Keep it separate until you are sure.
2. Take it SLOW. It takes time to get to know someone. Don't jump into bed with him right off the bat, no matter how cute, charming and sexy he is or how horny you are. You will be glad you waited.
3. If you realize he seems to be a great guy, ask around about him. Ask his friends, coworkers, relatives, whomever he has introduced you to. If he has NOT introduced you to any of his friends, co-workers or relatives, and you have gone out with him longer than a couple of months, RED FLAG. Do a background check on the computer too. It costs about $30 and worth so much more than that. (I actually discovered that a very handsome nice neighbor that had been hitting on me was a pediphile.)
4. Only you can decide if you are looking for a Dad for your kids, a husband for you, or just need adult male companionship/friendship. Whatever you are looking for, be sure you know up front and tell him exactly what your rules are, your boundaries so to speak. It will cut down on the confusion later in any relationship you might develop.
5. Have fun, but be safe! Use comdoms when the decision for sex is made. You want to be around to raise your children.
6. Don't co-habitate unless this is truly a marriage type relationship. Don't let guys come and go and trapse through your children's lives like unwanted uncles. It's very damaging to their little lives.